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Sarah Palin reporting on Glen Rice's basketball team for KTUU three months after they did the nasty.

Courtesy of Deadspin:

Just about three months after her alleged one-night stand with Michigan star player Glen Rice, Sarah Palin (then Sarah Heath) reported on a Wolverines game for Anchorage's KTUU-TV. In the clip above, she's reporting on Michigan's 80-67 loss against Purdue on March 3, 1988 in to clinch the Big Ten championship game. Her alleged former lover had just 11 points and shot 5 for 16 from the field in the game, so he goes unmentioned. 

Okay this might just be the result of knowing that Palin and Rice bumped uglies, but does EVERYTHING she says in this sportscast seem packed with sexual innuendo to anybody else?

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my short, not well edited video from Thursday 1st september 2011
Cute Girl Sexy Piercing

this is my first facial  piercing!
it stung a little,
hence the face i make lol.
i also apparently bleed a lot;
like half the video is of me bleeding .it looks cute nowi love it.
btw i got it at Exist Body Art

Gorgeous emo / scene girls

Emo girls are cuteand sexy

 Lesbian Kiss Emo Girl Sexy

Sexy Lesbian Girls French Kissing

 

A small movie sample of the famous lesbian movie Unfaithful 5 from Viv Thomas. Just a deep french lesbian kiss, but what a kiss Nella and Lisa eat litterally the mouth of each other. Probably one of the most passionate and hot french kiss between two girls

Today's "Things that once seen, cannot be unseen" brought to you by our friend Azure Ghost.

Oooh that's just not okay!

But hey, it is perfect for today's caption contest.

Fire up your imaginations folks, this should be a cake walk for most of you!

(P.S. I am leaving for the Alaska State Fair in about an hour, but I should still be able to okay comments with my handy dandy I-Phone. Hmm I wonder if I will run into anybody "interesting" at the fair?)

Sexual Gatekeepers versus Soulkeepers

My ex-ltr called me to see how I'm doing in the midst of all my family troubles (very sick relative) and we commenced a conversation about relationships and sex.  Two things I loooooove to talk about.  He had some opinions on frenchi which weren't terrible but more along the lines if he's not giving you what you need then move on.  He was more interested however in talking about how easy it is for women to get laid and how he'd like to experience it for himself.  He feels I'm hot enough to span the demographic of ages and could have whoever I wanted in bed.  I find this funny because what he says is true in some respects, but not at all what women want.  He really wants to be a man in a woman's body and have sex.  I think he'd rather sex up women if that was the case, because otherwise he'd have to be penetrated by a dude.

Women do hold the cards in sexual engagement.  We are the gatekeepers.  I know that and yet feel no power in it.  Okay, maybe a little.  I know I could have sex with multiple partners every day of the week if I wanted to, even at the same time.  Men don't say no easily.  Men aren't as picky in who they'll bang either.  I work at being fit and keeping myself attractive which simply ups the quality of man, not the quantity.  Quantity is high for basically any woman if she so chooses.   A man's dream to have that much access to sex right?

Women are biologically wired not to desire that, which is where it gets confusing for men.  Even my ex-ltr was encouraging me to go out and do the nasty with more men, I think he was picturing living vicariously through my experience.   I find no joy in picturing myself with man after man simply living for the next sexual thrill.  don't identify with the PUA's on men's sites.  Sure there are women out there who will but my belief is they are looking for a man who will fall in love with her and they believe being sexually expressive will help.  If I've learned one thing at Roissy, men love sluts but they don't want to marry them.

I used to play an online game called Secondlife, it was a place I could express sexual fantasy outside of my bedroom.  I was quite the slut and had many men vying for my attention when I got online.  I can write dirty like nobody's business.  It was thrilling to be sought after in the virtual community.  I had a hot avatar and spent a little money in making her look realistic, but it was really what I said in my little chat box that had the men buzzing like bees.  I later learned that a lot of women avatars in Secondlife are actually men.  They knew they could get more by being a woman than by being a male, because even in virtual life women are choosy.  I found this out because men would ask me if I was a woman.  I thought that was a dumb question, not realizing the proliferation of males in the game itself.  I'm a bit nerdy so I was able to survive a bit of a steep learning curve where many women bow out.

Men and women have totally different power holds in the sexual marketplace.  Women to their bodies and men to their souls.  Both genders seem to want what they don't have.  Bottom line is we are responsible for what we want, need, desire and can't blame a gender when we don't get it.  Far too often we're unaware of what drives us, we confuse biological and emotional drives and we 'f' up because of it. Even now more aware of what drives the sexes I still am confused, it's a struggle for me to separate the two and only in crisis have I become more aware of my emotional side.  I damn well better learn something I tell myself...

Sexual Gatekeepers versus Soulkeepers

My ex-ltr called me to see how I'm doing in the midst of all my family troubles (very sick relative) and we commenced a conversation about relationships and sex.  Two things I loooooove to talk about.  He had some opinions on frenchi which weren't terrible but more along the lines if he's not giving you what you need then move on.  He was more interested however in talking about how easy it is for women to get laid and how he'd like to experience it for himself.  He feels I'm hot enough to span the demographic of ages and could have whoever I wanted in bed.  I find this funny because what he says is true in some respects, but not at all what women want.  He really wants to be a man in a woman's body and have sex.  I think he'd rather sex up women if that was the case, because otherwise he'd have to be penetrated by a dude.

Women do hold the cards in sexual engagement.  We are the gatekeepers.  I know that and yet feel no power in it.  Okay, maybe a little.  I know I could have sex with multiple partners every day of the week if I wanted to, even at the same time.  Men don't say no easily.  Men aren't as picky in who they'll bang either.  I work at being fit and keeping myself attractive which simply ups the quality of man, not the quantity.  Quantity is high for basically any woman if she so chooses.   A man's dream to have that much access to sex right?

Women are biologically wired not to desire that, which is where it gets confusing for men.  Even my ex-ltr was encouraging me to go out and do the nasty with more men, I think he was picturing living vicariously through my experience.   I find no joy in picturing myself with man after man simply living for the next sexual thrill.  don't identify with the PUA's on men's sites.  Sure there are women out there who will but my belief is they are looking for a man who will fall in love with her and they believe being sexually expressive will help.  If I've learned one thing at Roissy, men love sluts but they don't want to marry them.

I used to play an online game called Secondlife, it was a place I could express sexual fantasy outside of my bedroom.  I was quite the slut and had many men vying for my attention when I got online.  I can write dirty like nobody's business.  It was thrilling to be sought after in the virtual community.  I had a hot avatar and spent a little money in making her look realistic, but it was really what I said in my little chat box that had the men buzzing like bees.  I later learned that a lot of women avatars in Secondlife are actually men.  They knew they could get more by being a woman than by being a male, because even in virtual life women are choosy.  I found this out because men would ask me if I was a woman.  I thought that was a dumb question, not realizing the proliferation of males in the game itself.  I'm a bit nerdy so I was able to survive a bit of a steep learning curve where many women bow out.

Men and women have totally different power holds in the sexual marketplace.  Women to their bodies and men to their souls.  Both genders seem to want what they don't have.  Bottom line is we are responsible for what we want, need, desire and can't blame a gender when we don't get it.  Far too often we're unaware of what drives us, we confuse biological and emotional drives and we 'f' up because of it. Even now more aware of what drives the sexes I still am confused, it's a struggle for me to separate the two and only in crisis have I become more aware of my emotional side.  I damn well better learn something I tell myself...

Today's feel good story of the day features an anti-gay marriage Republican caught propositioning an 18 year old male on Craiglist for sex. Wow, that DOES make me feel good!

Rep. Phillip Hinkle fondles his bullwhip.

Courtesy of TPM:

An Indiana state Representative, who recently voted for a constitutional amendment that would ban gay marriage, has been accused of using Craigslist to offer an 18-year old male $80 for "a couple hours of your time tonight" plus a tip "for a really good time." 

The Indianapolis Star obtained e-mails sent from Rep. Phillip Hinkle's (R) publicly listed personal address, responding to a Craigslist posting by Kameryn Gibson that said "I need a sugga daddy." Gibson told the Star that the post was in the "Casual Encounters" section under m4m, or men for men. He used his sister Megan's e-mail address -- and she later sent the e-mails to the Star. 

"Cannot be a long time sugar daddy," says the e-mail response from what is allegedly Hinkle's address, "but can for tonight. Would you be interested in keeping me company for a while tonight?" 

"I am an in shape married professional, 5'8", fit 170 lbs, and love getting and staying naked," the e-mail says. 

Another e-mail says: "If u want to consider spending night u might tell ur sis so she won't worry. Would have u back before 11 tomorrow. No extra cash just free breakfast and maybe late night snack."

You know I think it is just precious that Rep. Hinkle does not want the family of his boy-toy to worry while he defiles him for money, and that he also wants to make sure his nutritional needs are met before he delivers him back to his sister's house in the morning. Pure class!

I believe that Rep. Hinkle sounds like a fairly reasonable gentleman living a life of quiet desperation, as he pretends to despise the very lifestyle that he wishes he could embrace openly. (Update: Well fairly reasonable that is until he told this kid he could not leave the hotel until "we do what we need to do," and then had his wife offer the boy and his sister $10,000 to keep quiet about the incident.)

It is just too bad that according to the belief system of the party that he has sworn his allegiance to he will now have to burn in the fiery pits of hell for his sinful nature. Sucks to be gay in the Grand Old Party.

I cannot tell you how amazing I find it that these powerful men, with everything to lose, openly respond to advertisement on Craiglist. You would think that after the Rep. Chris Lee scandal that NOBODY in Congress would even log into Craiglist.

The New Republican logo is out.

 Wait for it, it will come to you.

Somebody suggested calling it "The GOP rewarding Boehner."

Tsk, tsk, tsk, naughty, naughty, naughty.

A girls gotta do, what a girls gotta do.

My man is away for three weeks and my mind is full of him.  Thinking about my attraction and our future and just him in general.  He is flawed like the rest of the world, but rather than turn me off his flaws are very attractive.

His attractive traits:

• He does what he wants and makes no excuses or apologies.  He doesn't check with me to see what I want to do, he knows what he needs to get done and ensures it gets done.
• He makes no apologies for saying sex/love making is very important and he won't compromise with a woman who places it lower down on the list. 
• He doesn't concentrate on me. He recently forgot my birthday, but rather than profusely apologize he correctly stated his mind is full of crap he's dealing with (sick mom etc.).  He doesn't seem big on those kind of days and would rather treat me well every day, then treat me well on one special day.  I dig that.
• He never puts himself down.  He's not arrogant, he acknowledges his imperfections without beating himself up about them.  Pretty self-aware.  
• He is comfortable naked and very open about his desires.  Interested in trying new things without being embarrassed to talk about it.
• He could care less that I write a blog, shows no interest in it.  I like this because if he asked I'd show him and know he would be only moderatly interested and wouldn't mind my half-naked shots being shown.  He loves my sensuality and gets that its a package.   He does like that I can talk about men and women's relationships and have some understanding from a man's point of view.
• He's honest about what he wants and shows transparency at times.  Sometimes he's distant but as I've gotten to know him, I've come to realize it's not about me.  He really appreciates my lack of pressure and when I seek reassurance he's quick to give it.  He likes that once I receive it, I'm good.  
• He's talked about other women, sometimes as women he's 'played with', but he's never put them down.  If we break-up I know I'll be talked about affectionately.  

If we were to measure him on an alpha/beta scale he scores alpha which leaves me very aware of his desirability by other women.  He also knows he's desirable to other women and could have pretty much anyone he wants.  That keeps me on my toes.  I have to up the ante in regards to what keeps me interesting and special.  I have his full attention now, I'm not going to rest on that and become complacent.  

I need to:

• Keep myself hot and become even hotter.  By this I mean toning and slimming myself down even more.  I have a great waist/hip ratio - my waist is 10 inches smaller than my hips. I want to keep the ratio and lose four inches off both.  He once dated a figure competitor (body building) and I don't come close to that, mind you I don't want to either, don't like bony chest bones.  He has never complained about my body, but I know smaller would be hotter.
• Never forget that being sexual/sensual is important to him. Don't become boring in bed.  Keep him interested by hinting, teasing and then doing things that he hasn't done or hasn't done the best.  My goal is to be the best he's ever had.  I've heard that from him twice and I know he doesn't give compliments easily, he doesn't feel he has to win my favour.  When he tells me I'm hot, I believe him.  Not going to lose that.
• Make sure I don't reveal every overly analytical thought that goes through my head about us.  When I'm succumbing to worry about us, make sure I write it out and then delete it.  The fact I don't do this makes me very attractive to him, he loves my lack of need (ha!).  
• Make sure he knows how special and sexy he is.  I call him my yummy man on a regular basis and he loves it.  The man is the king and needs to know his woman thinks so too.
• Never lose sight of the fact I could lose the dude.  Not to make me desperate or needy, but the opposite. Behaviour is critical.  



He loves this shirt.  It was my choice for date one.

• Keep myself maintained, meaning body hair and head of hair and tasteful clothes.  How I look to others will be a direct reflection of how I see him. If I let myself go, it means I don't respect him.  I work at how I look, I have for a long time, not planning on stopping now.  

As I was writing this he told me to call him.  I did and he said he wanted to hear my voice and we talked for maybe 3 minutes.  Longest calls with him last no longer than 15 and that's a stretch.  He laughs at how women love to talk and men don't have much to say, it's true.  

I've dated a lot of men as these pages can attest to, and I've been pretty intent on making sure I liked the guy before seeing a future. I thought many times I'd be single for the rest of my days because I couldn't seem to believe in settling.  Honestly I'd still rather be single than be in a crappy relationship.  That I've found a great guy and it's still going at 8 months is a testimony for knowing what you want and what you have to offer.  The goal is to keep it going.  Time will tell.  

A girls gotta do, what a girls gotta do.

My man is away for three weeks and my mind is full of him.  Thinking about my attraction and our future and just him in general.  He is flawed like the rest of the world, but rather than turn me off his flaws are very attractive.

His attractive traits:

• He does what he wants and makes no excuses or apologies.  He doesn't check with me to see what I want to do, he knows what he needs to get done and ensures it gets done.
• He makes no apologies for saying sex/love making is very important and he won't compromise with a woman who places it lower down on the list. 
• He doesn't concentrate on me. He recently forgot my birthday, but rather than profusely apologize he correctly stated his mind is full of crap he's dealing with (sick mom etc.).  He doesn't seem big on those kind of days and would rather treat me well every day, then treat me well on one special day.  I dig that.
• He never puts himself down.  He's not arrogant, he acknowledges his imperfections without beating himself up about them.  Pretty self-aware.  
• He is comfortable naked and very open about his desires.  Interested in trying new things without being embarrassed to talk about it.
• He could care less that I write a blog, shows no interest in it.  I like this because if he asked I'd show him and know he would be only moderatly interested and wouldn't mind my half-naked shots being shown.  He loves my sensuality and gets that its a package.   He does like that I can talk about men and women's relationships and have some understanding from a man's point of view.
• He's honest about what he wants and shows transparency at times.  Sometimes he's distant but as I've gotten to know him, I've come to realize it's not about me.  He really appreciates my lack of pressure and when I seek reassurance he's quick to give it.  He likes that once I receive it, I'm good.  
• He's talked about other women, sometimes as women he's 'played with', but he's never put them down.  If we break-up I know I'll be talked about affectionately.  

If we were to measure him on an alpha/beta scale he scores alpha which leaves me very aware of his desirability by other women.  He also knows he's desirable to other women and could have pretty much anyone he wants.  That keeps me on my toes.  I have to up the ante in regards to what keeps me interesting and special.  I have his full attention now, I'm not going to rest on that and become complacent.  

I need to:

• Keep myself hot and become even hotter.  By this I mean toning and slimming myself down even more.  I have a great waist/hip ratio - my waist is 10 inches smaller than my hips. I want to keep the ratio and lose four inches off both.  He once dated a figure competitor (body building) and I don't come close to that, mind you I don't want to either, don't like bony chest bones.  He has never complained about my body, but I know smaller would be hotter.
• Never forget that being sexual/sensual is important to him. Don't become boring in bed.  Keep him interested by hinting, teasing and then doing things that he hasn't done or hasn't done the best.  My goal is to be the best he's ever had.  I've heard that from him twice and I know he doesn't give compliments easily, he doesn't feel he has to win my favour.  When he tells me I'm hot, I believe him.  Not going to lose that.
• Make sure I don't reveal every overly analytical thought that goes through my head about us.  When I'm succumbing to worry about us, make sure I write it out and then delete it.  The fact I don't do this makes me very attractive to him, he loves my lack of need (ha!).  
• Make sure he knows how special and sexy he is.  I call him my yummy man on a regular basis and he loves it.  The man is the king and needs to know his woman thinks so too.
• Never lose sight of the fact I could lose the dude.  Not to make me desperate or needy, but the opposite. Behaviour is critical.  



He loves this shirt.  It was my choice for date one.

• Keep myself maintained, meaning body hair and head of hair and tasteful clothes.  How I look to others will be a direct reflection of how I see him. If I let myself go, it means I don't respect him.  I work at how I look, I have for a long time, not planning on stopping now.  

As I was writing this he told me to call him.  I did and he said he wanted to hear my voice and we talked for maybe 3 minutes.  Longest calls with him last no longer than 15 and that's a stretch.  He laughs at how women love to talk and men don't have much to say, it's true.  

I've dated a lot of men as these pages can attest to, and I've been pretty intent on making sure I liked the guy before seeing a future. I thought many times I'd be single for the rest of my days because I couldn't seem to believe in settling.  Honestly I'd still rather be single than be in a crappy relationship.  That I've found a great guy and it's still going at 8 months is a testimony for knowing what you want and what you have to offer.  The goal is to keep it going.  Time will tell.  

Doing twin sisters.

I was casually talking with my man about sex with two women and the desire many men have to 'do' sisters, especially twin sisters.   He said "Why?  You get no variety that way, you look over at the other one and you're 'doing' the same girl."   Haha.  True.

Doing twin sisters.

I was casually talking with my man about sex with two women and the desire many men have to 'do' sisters, especially twin sisters.   He said "Why?  You get no variety that way, you look over at the other one and you're 'doing' the same girl."   Haha.  True.

Submissive or Topping from the Bottom?

I have identified myself as submissive sexually more than a few times on this site and others, like Roissy's.  Lately I wonder if submissive is really a thing.  I mean don't men act dominating to women to turn them on, thereby making the women the driver in a round about way? So are women topping men?

I've told my lover I like it rough and he has willingly and enjoyingly (not a word) obliged me.  I feel submissive during, but I'm not really when I've told him what turns me on right?  How would I feel if a man was dominating and insisted it was his way or no way, that he didn't care if I didn't feel like it (that really never happens) he was doing it and his way.  It turns me on in theory (big time), but would I stop feeling part of the equation?  More object than partner?  Again a turn on in theory, but practice.... hasn't happened.

Thoughts out there in interwebz land??

Submissive or Topping from the Bottom?

I have identified myself as submissive sexually more than a few times on this site and others, like Roissy's.  Lately I wonder if submissive is really a thing.  I mean don't men act dominating to women to turn them on, thereby making the women the driver in a round about way? So are women topping men?

I've told my lover I like it rough and he has willingly and enjoyingly (not a word) obliged me.  I feel submissive during, but I'm not really when I've told him what turns me on right?  How would I feel if a man was dominating and insisted it was his way or no way, that he didn't care if I didn't feel like it (that really never happens) he was doing it and his way.  It turns me on in theory (big time), but would I stop feeling part of the equation?  More object than partner?  Again a turn on in theory, but practice.... hasn't happened.

Thoughts out there in interwebz land??

Just when you thought the RAM Tweets could not be any more scandalolus. Wrong again Spanky! Update!

This comes from the same guy who has been posting all of the other tweets from RAM, and the same guy who sent some of them to the Daily Caller.

In other words it looks legitimate, which would reinforce what I have believed about RAM's relationship with Palin all along, and WHY she has dropped off the face of the planet.

Update: Oops looks like it might have been too good to be true.  If THIS tweet is to be believed that is:

I also stumbled upon THIS interesting tweet from RAM alluding to a planned dinner with the Alaska bloggers that Phil Munger attempted to set up quite a while back, before RAM was officially working for Palin.

 I always KNEW she cancelled because of me. Not that it breaks my heart any.

Still it is kind of hurtful considering I am the ONLY one who seems to be actively trying to find out what happened to her.  I even put her face on a milk carton. (Well on the internet anyway.)

Remember if anybody sees her, first stifle your scream of horror, and then contact me immediately!

Everybody's favorite Queen of Quitting inspiration for character of bubbly, somewhat psychotic teacher in Cameron Diaz movie.

Courtesy of the Playlist:

Lucy Punch had some interesting things to say about the inspiration for her character, the neurotic and perpetually chipper teacher Ms. Squirrel. “It was pretty much that character on the page but when I read it, just because of the way she talks, because she’s rather twee and perky. The first person I thought was she seems if Sarah Palin had a little cousin who’s an elementary school teacher. I mentioned it to Jake [Kasdan] and he said, ‘You know, I don’t think that was the intention.’ I don’t know if they’re in there but I threw in a few winks and “you betchas”. That’s just who I had in my head, that energy. Not to say that Sarah Palin is deranged or unhinged,” Punch said.

Thomas Lennon then clarified: “That’s almost exactly what you’re saying.” To which Punch shot back: “I’m talking about her perky energy!”

Yeah I have news for Ms. Punch. Sarah Palin IS deranged and unhinged, it only SEEMS like "perky energy" to the uniitiated.

See?  How is that NOT deranged and unhinged?

By the way, I happened to see "Bad Teacher" last Friday, and I loved it.

Do you know how you see something that makes you laugh, and you think "I am going to hell for this?"  Well this whole movie is like that.

But if you have a truly demented sense of humor, like me, then you will LOVE it!

Here is the trailer.



P.S. This movie has the least sexy fully clothed dry humping scene of all time. Just so you know.

Why do women let themselves go?

It's a little more difficult for me to come up with material to write about, seeing how this was primarily a dating blog, and now I'm seriously involved.  That said I think if I shifted my focus to relationship truths then it might work.  I'll blog about work from time to time, but mostly I'd like to stick to sex, lies and  attempt the truth.  My frenchman knows I write a blog, but has not interest in it, hasn't even asked me.  I thought this was odd at first, but now when I look at it, I think he just thinks of it as a thing I do and like.  Like my lack of interest in sports he has no interest in blogging. Actually I like it that way, I certainly want to keep this going and I have no desire for him to read my past life.   I can be quite angsty on these pages, and am not really in 'real' life, I'm much cooler in person. (I can dream right?).

Relationship discussion for today: Why women let themselves go.

We've all seen it.  Heck we can all see it coming.  If you're over 30 you know that all those hot 20 somethings will fade like black t-shirts after a few washes. Why?  I know that natural aging counts for some of it, but it's more than that.  It's failure to keep up with hair styles, clothes that look like you've shopped at Walmart and weight that keeps creeping on.  The women who let themselves go are the attached.  They've 'captured' the prey and feeling like he'll love them no matter what (because he says it) and then they give up the work of the chase.  They are unaware of how men work.  Men are very capable of staying in a relationship, but don't count on his eyes staying them, not to mention other parts of his anatomy.  He can compartmentalize and love them perhaps, but he doesn't lust after them.  Is it drive for women? Do they not care than he doesn't want them sexually?  Are they relieved when sex becomes less frequent maybe?

I feel that women of any age owe there partner to look their best.  It's respectful to your partner I think.  All men want a pretty wife.  Women know this don't they?  Yes.  If they know this why do they become fat and ugly?  It's disrespect for his desire if you ask me.  I don't mean a woman should look like a porn star or even a movie star, but she should maintain her weight, even after kids, do her hair and dress appropriately for her age.  35 does NOT mean granny panties...just sayin'.

Why do women let themselves go?

It's a little more difficult for me to come up with material to write about, seeing how this was primarily a dating blog, and now I'm seriously involved.  That said I think if I shifted my focus to relationship truths then it might work.  I'll blog about work from time to time, but mostly I'd like to stick to sex, lies and  attempt the truth.  My frenchman knows I write a blog, but has not interest in it, hasn't even asked me.  I thought this was odd at first, but now when I look at it, I think he just thinks of it as a thing I do and like.  Like my lack of interest in sports he has no interest in blogging. Actually I like it that way, I certainly want to keep this going and I have no desire for him to read my past life.   I can be quite angsty on these pages, and am not really in 'real' life, I'm much cooler in person. (I can dream right?).

Relationship discussion for today: Why women let themselves go.

We've all seen it.  Heck we can all see it coming.  If you're over 30 you know that all those hot 20 somethings will fade like black t-shirts after a few washes. Why?  I know that natural aging counts for some of it, but it's more than that.  It's failure to keep up with hair styles, clothes that look like you've shopped at Walmart and weight that keeps creeping on.  The women who let themselves go are the attached.  They've 'captured' the prey and feeling like he'll love them no matter what (because he says it) and then they give up the work of the chase.  They are unaware of how men work.  Men are very capable of staying in a relationship, but don't count on his eyes staying them, not to mention other parts of his anatomy.  He can compartmentalize and love them perhaps, but he doesn't lust after them.  Is it drive for women? Do they not care than he doesn't want them sexually?  Are they relieved when sex becomes less frequent maybe?

I feel that women of any age owe there partner to look their best.  It's respectful to your partner I think.  All men want a pretty wife.  Women know this don't they?  Yes.  If they know this why do they become fat and ugly?  It's disrespect for his desire if you ask me.  I don't mean a woman should look like a porn star or even a movie star, but she should maintain her weight, even after kids, do her hair and dress appropriately for her age.  35 does NOT mean granny panties...just sayin'.

Sexy face.

Sexy Face

I don't have a sexy face.  It's attractive, classy maybe and borders on cute.  I can if done up just right be called gorgeous, even beautiful on really good days.  Most days I'm simply attractive.  I'm never hot, face wise.  If you compare the picture to the right (mine) and try to picture it on the body above (mine in the blogger bar) it doesn't match.  My half-naked headless shots are the 'real me', who I feel I really am.  My face lies to you, it says classy, cool, it doesn't say drag me by the hair and pound me senseless like the picture on the left.     Thankfully my man saw beneath the cool exterior and felt heat - lucky me.