Sunday, April 10, 2011

Meeting Roissy changed my life - True Story!

I'm at a funny crossroads when it comes to this blog.  My purpose for it to date has been to journal my efforts at both finding love and myself.  I started it shortly after 'meeting' Roissy in DC, in May of 2009.  I was reflecting today and feel that if I hadn't have met him I wouldn't have met this wonderful man I'm with.  I have grown both as a person and as a woman these last two years and can weirdly credit Roissy and his posse.  Evolutionary psychology/biology was unknown to me prior for one thing.  It made so much sense when I applied it to my dating history.  Dating after Roissy was quite interesting as I wrestled with being either in the moment or analyzing their behavior and mine.

My physical appearance improved too.  Readers were talking about Paleo and I began being a cave girl in April 2010.  My body has become much more attractive as a result.  I have spent money on interventions as documented on these pages - neck lipo, botox, juvaderm and lip fillers.  I have been willing to invest to keep the markers of youth and it's paid off nicely.  I have been accused both here and in real life of being shallow because I'm not willing to age naturally.  I'm okay with that and have zero regrets.  My career and love life are stronger because I'm smart enough to know looks matter.  Intelligence is at the root of it, not narcissism believe it or not.

My search for Mr. Right may have come to an end, at least I have a very strong and real hope it has, so if that's the case what does this blog become?  I can't blather on forever about how great my love life is, that gets old in two posts.  I have a genuine desire to help others who want to grow, grow.  I believe I'm emotionally mature and have quite a bit of social savvy if not the brightest bulb in the bunch and could give good advice if asked but I don't have enough commenter's to make that work.  What do you dear Readers want from me?  Some of you are saying more HNT's and I agree I should pick that back up.  Some are saying I want more work stories (i.e new company start up) and others are saying...  Let me know.