Forgive my somewhat disjointed prattle about my experience knowing (do I understand?) men's Game. I'm still sick and wrote this over a couple days. Fever may be responsible.
I'm well versed in Game having spent over two years on men's Gaming sites. I'm adept at spotting alpha men. I'm not able to tell who's learned Game because the men I meet don't confess to studying it. Maybe Canadian men are more conservative and don't feel the Dark Arts are needed, or we're a little behind the times. Nah, more likely my small rural surroundings don't lend itself well to reading in the Big Leagues. I have very few Canadian readers which tells me Roissy likely has less than other countries too.
The men who attract me and who I'm interested in could well be players. They have natural style it seems to me. They can attract a number of women and often have. I could point out areas they excel in at getting my interest because of what I've learned about Game. Body Language, speaking confidence (not always bold , but firm in what positions they hold), The problem is I try to counter with my own Game. I try to figure out what will make me more attractive at keeping his interest. I know the obvious - look hotter than his last girl friend (and his next). I think I've been struggling though because I've played a bit at aloof game or maybe better described as super confidence game. Aka , "I don't need you" Game. This is not at all what I am experiencing internally. I'm often hoping I'm capturing his interest for a longer term dealie. The confidence game is me trying to increase my value. But...I honestly believe looking at it that it would be better to be displaying more of my real desire. When I'm into a guy I'm into him. I like to be affirming and I love making him feel special (cuz he is). I've subverted some of those acts because I don't want him to believe I can't be without him. I think that's a critical error. Looking at it I think men like feeling like King of the Castle and want to feel they're the next best thing since sliced bread.
Another area I may be failing in is once I become sexual with my partner I will never say never. I have a high drive and figured that having a girlfriend who is always ready to go would be a good thing. I think however it may dilute the pleasure of getting 'it'. If you can always get it, where's the fun in chasing it and hoping for it. I could be wrong - looking for feedback here. I'm analytical and could really be over thinking things a bit much - this works in business but not always great in relationships.
I avoid shit tests like the plague having read so many men's irritation with them. I think this has been a benefit. When I feel like laying one down - I count to 10 and redirect how I talk to him. I am a girlie girl and recognize this is a benefit to many men. I am polite and make sure I don't cause any social embarrassment. I have learned these things are valued and I've seen that is true. I have a soft spot for men's issues having become much more aware of the plight of men. These things I think work in my favour, I've certainly been reinforced positively in the past.
I'm pretty easy going and can be easily redirected if my partner has another idea. Does my easy-goingness also go against me? Do I lack challange to a man?
Or
It may be simply I haven't met the right guy...yet. (delusion?)
Or
It may be simply I haven't met the right guy...yet. (delusion?)
