I had a second date with the guy who wanted my pictures. After our first date he asked if I could email him pictures I had on the dating site, I felt it was a weird request, but complied. The pictures are on my Facebook too and anyone could save them, not a risque one in the bunch. Although this again reconfirmed he's about my appearance.
He wanted me to go to his house and watch a movie for our second meeting which I declined. He lives almost an hour away and I didn't want to be driving back late at night. I told him this and he offered to let me sleep over. I declined. He tried to push it, but I stuck to my guns. It was 9pm before he asked me to drive to a place on the highway about 30 minutes away and park my car, he said he'd pick me up and take me to a restaurant. As I was driving I thought about this crazy plan. He said he was a cop, but I didn't really know he was a cop did I? I'm thinking I'm leaving my car in a farmers field to be picked up by a guy I've met once and then what? Murdered, raped? I was questioning my mental health. I text a girl friend and told her his name and what he drove and said if you don't hear from me, know at least this much. Long story short he picked me up AND dropped me off appropriately. I'm alive never to repeat that dumb move again.
But...
If I could have killed myself by sticking a pin in my eye during the second meeting I would have been thrilled. Honestly up there with one of the worst meetings I've had. The guy was non-stop about himself. He's ranked 1,400 in Hockey for online games doncha know. He was almost an NHL hockey player..uh huh. He's friends with an NHL hockey player... He's liked by everyone (who says that?). He did not ask me once about what I do, what I like to do, what I'm looking for. Nada. Not one question directed my way.
I tried to start a conversation about movies.
Me: I've seen Salt, Angelina Jolie, have you?
Him: I don't like Angelina. I don't like Brad either.
Me: Oh are you a Jennifer Anniston fan?
Him: I'd be so good to her.
Him: I saw Jen's house. Ya she was home too, her dog was out.
(
I'm nodding)
Him: Jen lives across the street from Cage's house. You can see much more of Nick's house than you can of Jen's.
Him: Leo's on the same street.
Honestly it sounded like he was best friends with them. The casual use of their first names was off putting. He also got into a lengthy story about Sandra and Jesse and how they were trying to work it out. I am a beotch and started to act like I knew and cared and said, "nah Sandra's done, she's fast tracking the divorce." He looked horrified, as if Sandra hadn't contacted him first. Kinda funny.
We sat in his car for a few minutes before I got into my own, I wondered if he'd try to kiss me. I wanted to know if he was a good kisser only because he's quite attractive and I wanted to know if he had 'it'. I made no move (
no duh) and neither did he. I left.
Five minutes later text:
Him: No goodnight kiss. Boo Hoo
Me: You didn't try
Him: You know I like you.
Me: No I didn't and even if I did I'm not going to make the first move.
Me: Why do you like me? (
I was curious..he hadn't learned one thing about me)
Him: You're swell. You are easy to be with and ur pretty.
I'm thinking, "
duh, I didn't say more than 10 words, ya that's easy to be with for a narcissist".
Then he started whining about how I didn't come over. I was blunt. I told him I wouldn't do that so quickly and I would have to get to know him better. Even today I got a message asking me to come over tonight. I was frank this time and said we are on different wave lengths about these things and we'd have to move on.
He just didn't get it. And he won't.
I met fourth guy today, but that's a story for another day.
